It suddenly dawned upon me that becoming mature may not necessarily be a good thing.

True enough, more mature thinkings are developed; become more independent in actions and that we do not need too much attention as compared to young.

However, maturity does not allow you to act childish anymore. People expect you to act like an adult, and you are forced not to cry, be it in whatever circumstances.

People have this misconception that the matured ones won't be able to understand what the younger ones are feeling. I doubt so. If the matured ones do not understand, then how on earth are they able to achieve the maturity? It must be because they have gone through it, perhaps experienced something thst caused their perception towards thoughts to change to higher level. So why is it that matured ones are misunderstood that they do not understand?

And because of that, sometimes they are mistaken. They will be misunderstood to have no sympathy, just becasue they are holding back the feelings as it is just not right to show it all out.

成熟：好？不好？独立？落寞？