Tuesday, September 02, 2008

相信

我曾经很相信这信念:“人不为己,天诛地灭”。因为曾经的经验让我不得不有这个信念。然而,当思想更开阔时,这信念逐渐消失,而我的心开始软化。

相信人人都曾经会有过这信念,但得告诉自己得给这社会和周围的人机会。别因为一枝竹竿打翻整条船而错过了交到好友与知己的良机。可是当你敞开你的心房,去相信他人,去努力为他人着想,并尝试了解他人的想法,有多少时候能真正地让他人相信你,成为你的好朋友,了解你,并且能让他人不求回报地付出同样的努力或友谊呢?

你的真心付出能让他人感受到吗?即使感受到了,他们也会同样地付出吗?还是他们仍然只能看到自己所沉浸的世界吗?又或许他人利用了你这份真挚的感情,而因此做出某些背叛的行为或举动?

这时,你开始怀疑自己所付出的感情是否值得?你是否开始怀疑这世界的人也许都是自私的,做什么东西必定要求回报呢?

想一想。。。。

这是值得的。知己或真心的好朋友有几个就够了。这世界不可能每个人都是友善的,都会不求付出成为你的真心好朋友。也许有时会怀疑,但是知道有真心的好友随时为你付出,你便会觉得一切都是值得的。

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

YESH. Precisely! These have been on my mind ALL day... because of one or two friends. Sometimes i think to yao hui bao is asking too much. Maybe it should be unconditional.

To me it's zhi de de.. Just when a person don't see it.. it's just so depressing.

And i want to tell u i am really really glad that i have you as my friend. Really counting my blessings.

Intercept Wind said...

Don't need to "Every man for himself, if not ganna killed by Heaven and Earth" (Haha!).

But also dun give until you feel SO drained that you are dependent on others giving you back.

“量力而为。”