Thursday, March 17, 2005

Back...

Back for a new blog after a long while again. Something happened today and I realised that love can be stressful as well. This girl friend of mine, B likes a boy friend of mine, A. B and A are friends as well. A knows that B likes him but A doesn't like B, but he seems to be giving out the wrong signals to her. I actually did tell B before that do not put so much high hopes that A will be interested in her. She told me she knows but she hopes to have a more in depth relationship with A.

Whenever A gets quite close with a girl, or talks to a girl, B gets jealous. It is not just jealous, but a very strong and quite terrible one. She often complains to me and some of my other friends and I've always tell her that A and them are just ordinary friends and that it is not uncommon for them to be talking. However, she does not get it even though she say she does. Her jealousy is so bad that now A feels stressed and wishes to clarify things with her.

Every time she gets jealous, B's face will turn as black as a charcoal. Whenever I ask her what's wrong, she'll say nothing even though there is something, and made excuses like she having stomach cramps or whatsoever. People haves eyes to see and those around her and know her well knows that is not the case. She asked us once before that when her face turns black, is it that obvious? That obviously is a redundant question for everyone knows the answer.

Now the thing is that when will A clarify things with B and will B able to change this attitude of hers? One thing is for certain and that I'm able to forsee, A will definitely not tell B in this short while. When will he tell? I do not know and no one can be certain of the answer. All I hope is that people realise from the mistakes they made, don't give out wrong signals, as well as do not be too possessive.

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