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It’s typical of humans. They tend to regret only after what’s been taken away from them or lost it. It’s a contradiction but it’s true. Cherishing only what’s been lost. Why don’t people cherish in the first place? Reason? Simple! People take things for granted. People don’t give a damn when people they cherish when they’re around. That is because they are always there and people would never expect to lose them someday. Never! People just simply think that they would always be around, 24/7, monthly, yearly.

Only when people lost them, they started to realize it’s gone. The people they cherish about would never come back. This is when people tried their best to make them come back, although it’s impossible. Often, it’s stupid mistakes that cause people to lose the ones they love, cherish, care about. Once lost, people can never get them back. If they get them back, it would never be the same again, for the hurt or damage had been done.

To let people realize the ones they cherish now, would proved to be a difficult task for one never look around or stop to think about how their loved ones feel. When the ones they cherish try to tell them the feelings/emotions, people do not care. And because of that, the cherished ones would be deeply/greatly hurt, physically or emotionally.

In order not to regret, people, please make a point on trying to understand what your loved ones are feeling now. Do your actions or words cause them pain? If do, how can you mend the pain? Try to salvage while you still can. Do not only regret when you lost them.

There's actually 2 messages I want to bring it out to 2 people.... but have no guts to tell 1 of them... One I've already told long ago and have seeked forgiveness, and forgiveness is given to me. The other... is not that I seeked forgiveness but the person seeked forgiveness from me. I've long forgiven the person but it seems that the person is unable to put it down. If you happen to read this, you know whom I'm referring to. Do not say sorry anymore coz it's over. Let bygones be bygones. Emotions, feelings, scars may be there but just let it be memories, for "what's done cannot be undone". Treasure the one who's right beside you now. Do not regret it again.

Heaven decides fate and if fate says it's not meant to be.
We can't defy it no matter how much we wish to.
Memories will linger on and perhaps, that's the way it is.
A special someone, a special feeling.
A special place in my heart, that's where you'll be.
Regrets, it may be
Forgiveness, that's what we seek
Sorry, is what we want to say
That's how life is
Let regrets be lessons and memories
Forgiveness is long forgave
Needless to say sorry, for we're forgave
Let bygones be bygones
Keep the memories in our heart
And live life to fullest